Dear Helen,

The Q&A from Sept. 7 was a message to me as well. The other day I had a free session with a business coach who guaranteed I could build a 6-figure business, but when I told her I couldn’t afford her services right now, she replied that I have many blocks and limiting beliefs and am not ready to jump into the American Dream. I’ve been in business as a life coach just four months now, and I have faith in my heart that it’s the right direction.

I feel like this coach doesn’t understand that my “6-figure business” is a mission for me. I know that I will touch many lives in Latin America, helping women who need love, light and trust, and the more I give, the more I will receive back. Will this really bring me a 6-figure income?

-Doubting in Dallas

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Dear Doubting,

I didn’t hear the conversation you had with this business coach, so I don’t know what might have caused her to suggest that your hesitation to work with her is due to your blocks and limiting beliefs. I do know fear can cause us to hold back from making a big leap (especially where money is concerned). I also know that when making that leap, you have to pick the right people to “catch” you – choosing a coach you trust and feel connection with is crucial.

Believing in yourself despite what may seem like lack of support from others is an important part of achieving your dreams. The “nay sayers” are often a reflection of the little part inside us that may be skeptical or afraid to believe that we can really do it.

I believe truly anything is possible, including a 6-figure business for you and any other spirit-centered coach/healer – if that calls to you. What you need is a structure for taking action combined with loving, tell-it-like-it-is support that clears away old beliefs to make way for a new prosperity-centered mindset.

How do YOU deal with “nay sayers?”
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  1. 1 Suzanne
    2011 Oct 05

    I deal with nay-sayers by staying conscious that I’m not a naysayer to myself or to others. I agree with Helen that naysayers may be reflecting the part of ourselves that is afraid or doubting that we can do it. When I listen in to myself to hear my own voice, I have a conversation with that prat and there isn’t a need for someone else to reflect it to me which opens me up to attracting the kind of people who support me and who I wholeheartedly support.

  2. 2 Helen
    2011 Oct 05

    Suzanne,

    Thanks for sharing your strategy. I like your point about having a conversation with the doubting/critical part yourself to resolve any internal conflict so there’s no need to attract any nay-sayers out in the world.

    Great suggestion.

    Something wonderful is happening through you!
    -Helen


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